9 Things that 2020 Taught me

I've known these tidbits for awhile now, but 2020 really put a magnifying glass on these lessons:

1. Don't take your health for granted

I'm sure everyone has thought about their health this year, more so than previous years, but health is something that's easy to take for granted when it's good. It can be devastating when it's bad, so it's best to be as proactive as possible.

2. Technology is a beautiful thing

Yes, there are many dark and dreary things on social media and technology that you can get sucked into BUT it's been very helpful to staying in touch with loved ones, especially via FaceTime and Zoom. I love my husband dearly, but it is nice to see another friendly face on occasion, especially at safe distances.

3. Know your maximum capacity

I'm not talking about a maximum capacity in a physical space, but more so your maximum capacity in your head.

I stopped working at my previous place of employment, moved to a different part of town, started my own LLC, and started multiple home projects... There were a few times when I felt like it was too much to take on at once, so I had to pump the breaks and know when to step back in different areas. As much as I'd like to get everything done at once, it's best to make a list and chip away at what you want to do, rather than overload yourself.

4. You can't always be there for others

The simple fact is, you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself.

This year was challenging at times that I wanted to be there for a friend or family member (physically, or emotionally) but it's really hard to cheer people up when you're unhappy yourself. It's okay to step back and get yourself on steady ground before reaching out to others. In fact, it's healthier.

5. Appreciate every moment

This year "social distancing" and "safe at home" taught me that I should appreciate the time I have and how I spend it. This also means not wasting my time doing things I'm not excited to do. Your time is too precious to waste because you "feel obligated to". Do the things that fuel your passions. Do the things that make you happy.

6. Keep track of anything requiring advanced bookings

Booking a trip? Buying tickets to a show?

The world can change so quickly - keep track of anything that isn't happening in the same day that you purchase it. You'll save yourself some headaches with organized records. (and it will make it more efficient for the workers that help you)

7. Pivot your expectations

"The wind does not break the tree that bends" - I don't know the source, but I'm sure it's an old and ancient phrase...

I plan and organize things to extreme levels, but I had to pivot many times this year and I'm sure the same is true for many other people. Patience with yourself and your situation.

8. You'd be surprised at what you can accomplish with restrictions

Budgetary restrictions, time restrictions, social distancing, etc.

Keep a list, and keep pushing forward. You'd be surprised at what you can get done. Despite restrictions this year, I was able to accomplish a lot of things on my to-do-longterm list because there weren't social obligations, commute times, or travel plans to interfere with them.

9. Look for the silver linings

A lot of people became downright negative about 2020, even early on. Yes, there were a lot of unfortunate events, and very sad and stressful circumstances for everyone. BUT there are sneaky silver linings in a lot of situations. Seek those out. Look for things to be grateful for. There is always a bright side. Sometimes they take time to reveal themselves.